Friday, 22 November 2013

What Harm Can A Cougar Do

What Harm Can A Cougar Do?????

By Reabetswe Mashigo

With society’s diverse opinions about cougars, it has been revealed that it is the 21st century’s new class; however this reverse act could be a scar of a dreadful past (relationship). Women who live in rush hour are likely to be cougars during their autumn ages. These women get married in their spring {ages of 20-25} in hopes of living like Cinderella with their Sugga daddies, but that fairy-tale seems to come crashing down during their mid-thirties. These women tend to encounter various problems in their not so glamorous marriages and end up filing in a divorce. Although this may not be every cougar’s scenario, they share similar motives.

Cougars are stereotyped to be women who date younger men for Pleasure but that’s not always the case. A given fact that women mature faster than men isn’t not an issue in cougarville. Cougars gain a sense of woman empowerment with their toys as they feel needed when their submissive seem to cater to their womanly needs.

With society slowly accepting women into the masculine world of business, cougars that have tasted the fruits of success and power, their thirsts seem not to be quenched as they want to be reminded in their private lives that there are still in charge. That boils back to the question are women now afraid of (relationship wise) bedroom competition? Since the only place they seem to be coming out on top is in the work place.

Power seems to be a factor in cougarville but is it right to take it to the bedroom and make their boys less of men?

If Successful Cougars can’t find their ideal six figure making man, what law restricts them from a little standard reshuffle? With all the bickering and disapproval, what harm can a little spring do in one’s autumn?  I mean like really it is the 21st century and morals don’t seem to matter as they are renewed each year with a new trend.

Proud Cougars

·         Mariah Carey and Nick Cananon -10 years difference

·         Madonna and Brahim Zaibat  -30 years difference

·         Jennifer Lopez and Casper Smart -18 years difference

·         Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher -16 years difference

Thursday, 14 March 2013

THE TWERKING REVOLUTION

Ass hopping, Booty clapping, hip locking and ass vibrating have merged together and formed what is infamously known as Twerking. The movement became a trend in South Africa in the peak month of February last year but It never flinched a nerve that young women would take it seriously and display it out in the public. Tantalizing and entertaining as it is, is it really a way forward in the entertainment scene?
International Rap stars have featured the official twerk team in their music video such as the infamous @ladyloucious and @miztwerksum. These women have a profile on YouTube of seductively appetizing videos that scream out attention from the opposite sex. In their profile they claim to be promoting girl power however they have not achieved that goal since the opposite sex, lustful eyes does not seem to detect any female empowerment through their videos.
This promiscuous trend has touched-base in the respectable continent of Africa and has sadly influenced young ladies in forming groups such as “Pro Twerkers SA.” The indecent dance has boosted women confidence around the respectable continent, and it’s only a matter of time it breaks them. Itching hands don’t seem to behave when spotting a twerker on the dance floor, as these women are demoralised by society’s new perception about them.
Instead of moving forth and adhering to the ideology of feminism, women are taking steps back in society and falling in the traps of the opposite sex. How can men respect and take female seriously with a profile and history of twerking? We ask ourselves. Living in Corporate South Africa image is everything, no company is open to hiring a former twerker and no investor is open to rubbing shoulders with a company of twerkers. Now Ladies how prudent are our choices?
If YOLO is the excuse to tarnish ones reputation, than be society’s guest to a life of misery and disrespect.